West PUA

This is a list of things I will work at and become better at. I will work at them every day when the opportunities present themselves.

• Being more talkative
• Humor
• Talking louder

Being more talkative

I talk too little when meeting new people or hanging out with people I already know, but not very well. I will make an effort at asking open ended questions to them. I will also focus on making statements instead of asking questions, as that is less reactive.

Humor

Humor is easy; I just need to actually say the things out loud. A couple of days ago, I was doing some work at my workplace, and was talking to someone I knew. I made funny comments whenever one came to mind, and it worked out great. We had a funnier vibe after that. I didn’t know it was that easy.

Talking louder

I am often asked to repeat myself. I need to make a conscious effort to talk louder when I talk. I will also become more conscious of the things that control the sound and loudness of my voice, how deep I breathe and how I use my voice.